To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before is a contemporary romance about sixteen year old Lara Jean. Everytime Lara Jean falls in love, she writes a letter to her crush. She pours all her feelings into the it and this helps her to get over them. She keeps these secret letters in a special box given to her by her deceased mother. However, one day she finds they have been taken and mailed to her previous crushes, and our story takes off from there.
Lara Jean’s character is really innocent and pure, definitely not typical of a person her age. Her character was truly enjoyable and whilst staying naive, it wasn’t written to the point where it was unbelievable. Lara Jean was relatable and someone who we’d love to be friends with. She just seems like the kind of person who would bake you cupcakes on your birthday, let you borrow their books, and knit scarves for you. She’s a true sweetheart, and has fun, sarcastic and perceptive inner dialogue. Although her sarcastic nature doesn’t necessarily translate in her day to day dialogue in the beginning, it comes out more and more as her character develops and she becomes comfortable with who she really is. Her character development is great; she grows more confident and comfortable without losing who she is or giving in to the pressures around her. Overall this book was full of characters that were easily loveable, relatable, and funny.
Lara Jean’s relationship with her family is wonderful to read about. Her sisters play a huge part in her life and always come before anyone else, including boyfriends. Lara Jean and her sisters are always there for each other, through thick and thin, but remain realistic enough to have fights and make mistakes. In addition, Lara Jean and her sisters are half Korean. It’s refreshing to read about a diverse family and the parts where their korean heritage really shows. In fact, we would have loved to get know more about their cultural values and traditions. The father of the family is really supportive of the girls’ heritage, while not being Korean himself. Despite the death of their mother, he still pushes his daughter to follow and understand Korean traditions so that they do not lose sight of their roots. In addition, the father was always supportive of his daughters without being overbearing. It’s quite moving when you realize that he knows that the girls have no mother and he can’t replace that relationship, yet he does his best to ensure that his girls feel no sort of loss.
Lara Jean and her family aren’t the only worthy-of-mention relationships in this book. Lara Jean’s best friend Chris is also very interesting. Chris is very different from quiet, sweet, and shy Lara Jean. Chris is wild, rebellious, and eccentric. As opposed to innocent Lara Jean, who has always thought of herself as “a nobody” at school, Chris has the reputation of the school slut. Nevertheless, despite their differences, at the end of the day they are best friends who are are willing to go out of their comfort zones for one and other. They don’t always spend a lot of time together, but are there when they need to be, which itself is also very realistic. Additionally, I would’ve liked to learn more about Chris and her problems. It would’ve been nice to understand her further and also see some character development. Peter, another major character, also has interesting character development. Although initially he comes across as full of himself and selfish, as per the cliche, we realize there’s more to him that meets the eye. Peter remains narcissistic but is also easily offended, and that makes him cute and again, more real. Additionally, you know he’s a good person by the genuine kindness he shows Lara Jean, even when they are not around others that they would have to put up a show in front of.
There are not many points in the novel that annoyed us but the one thing that bugged us was how Lara Jean never bothered figuring out who mailed her personal love letters without her knowledge. Moreover, when she finds out who did send the letters, she isn’t mad or reacted how we would’ve, or how it makes sense to us. She is very calm and simply accepts it. This, however, might just be related to her character and how her personality is. As she is, in actually, a very collected and forgiving person.
From a purely aesthetic point of view, we really loved the cover. We loved the font as it looked as though Lara Jean had taken a sharpie and written on the cover by herself. The script and style really fits her personality. It is such a simple thing, however, it really added to the cute simplicity of the cover.
Originally, when first coming across this book, its cover, and its pretense, we thought it would be a fluffy read focused on light romances. We’re very glad to be able to say we were wrong. This novel focuses on character, tough situations, and deeper problems. The book ends with a cliffhanger. Not an ‘oh my god, I’m going to die if I don’t find out what happens next’ cliffhanger; but one nonetheless. Some people may disagree with whether or not the ending was suitable, but we thought that it was a very clever place to end it. It wasn’t unsatisfactory but it left you wanting more. Despite there not being a total conclusion, it leaves you with hope for the sequel. It’s the kind of book that you are still able to go back, read, and obsess over your favourite cute parts.
4.5